who is miss naja?
Thanks for visiting my personal blog.
I launched my very 1st website, MissNaja.com in 2014 after running a successful free tumblr blog for many years. At that time, I knew I wanted my brand to have a home of its own and I taught myself to code and build this website! Over the years, I’ve written over 250+ articles on this very site, many were penned before I became a Wife in 2016, a Life Coach in 2018, and a full-time entrepreneur. While I don’t write 10 articles per month on MissNaja.com anymore, I am still around! She’s my 1st baby and this blog is like a time capsule to some major transitional years. These days, I spend my time at my businesses BlendedandBlack.com and VIPStepmom.com. My professional website, NajaHall.com will give you an overview of all of my latest endeavors and contact and booking info. Thank you for being here. It means the world to me.
My Blog
Stepwives: Ten Steps to Help Ex-Wives and Step-Mothers End the Struggle and Put the Kids First
Stepwives: (n) (1) ex-wife and current wife to the same man, mother and stepmother to the same children; (2) women destined to battle for the love and control of their families…until now! Lynne and Louise were stepwives for ten years. While they managed a barely civil relationship, each was seething with anger on the inside. […]
Women and Mental Health
Common Mental Health Issues Among Women Mental health disorders can affect anyone of any gender, race or age. There are over 50 million Americans who suffer from mental illness, and if you’re one of them, you’re not alone. Of both genders, women are often most likely to suffer from certain mental illnesses. The Substance Abuse […]
Why this week is one of the most popular weeks to file for divorce
Divorce filings jump by one-third in January Happy Divorce Day — and Divorce Month! There is a surge in divorce filings on the first Monday of the year, divorce attorneys say, and that continues for the rest of the month. Divorce attorneys are kept busy after the holidays. “The surge happens on Divorce Monday,” says […]
CONSIDERING CLOSING YOUR CREDIT CARD? THINK TWICE
I remember when my mother first realized I owned a credit card. I was in college and the bill arrived at my parent’s house, why I didn’t have the foresight to have my bill sent to school, call it fate. As she scrolled through the charges and saw my lavish Red Lobster dinners and Journey’s […]
Easy Whole Roasted Turkey
Juicy and tender!! Easy & Juicy Whole Roasted Turkey Ok ok I heard you sheesh! Some of you RAVED about the herb roasted turkey recipe I put up a few years ago and some of you said “uhhh Monique I love you and everything but that turkey is just toooooo much work with all that flipping and […]
Stepmothers: Keeping It Together With Your Husband and His Kids
Based on interviews with fifty-two stepmothers, a guide to surviving in this often uncomfortable role discusses the realities of changes in routines and lifestyles, territorial squabbles, co-parenting, and much more. Editorial Reviews From Publishers Weekly Jones and Schiller, themselves stepmothers, living in Pennsylvania, sent a questionnaire to friends and friends of friends who are stepmothers, […]
Is my Vag magical?
Greetings Dr. Naja, My name is Rochelle. I am going to cut straight to the chase. Why is sex so powerful. It seems that men cannot control themselves when it comes to it! Rochelle, society places a mark that sex is the most powerful thing a woman can offer and what lures a man in, […]
No One’s the Bitch
Written by: Jennifer Newcomb Marine, Carol Marine Narrated by: Paula Christensen, Coleen Marl Length: 6 hrs and 11 mins In No One’s the Bitch, ex-wife/stepmother team extraordinaire Jennifer Newcomb Marine and Carol Marine take you for a straight-talking, hand-holding walk through what is typically a very lonely minefield. Whether you just want to create a […]
DIYDS Easy & Elegant Natural Hair Twist Out
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Mantra: Choose Greatness!
Today I choose my greatness. Today I honor my boundaries & intuition. Today I make healthy choices in all realms of my life. Today I have faith that I CAN. Today I love 100%, nothing less. Today I practice saying no to things that do not serve me. Today I practice saying no to my […]
Approach for dealing with hostile bio-mom
by Cathryn Bond Doyle *For more info check out smoms.org When the bio-mom makes it clear she isn’t interested in getting along with us, it’s time for a new strategy. The following is a revised compilation of several earlier posts to sum up a new outlook for this enraging and painful situation. A new approach to […]
Why does your kid look like your Ex!!!??
Russell Bonduriansky Offspring can have traits that resemble a mother’s previous sexual partner rather than the actual father. Yes, this is for real — at least in flies. In a new study, researchers in Australia manipulated the size of male flies, also studying their young. They found that the size of the baby flies depended […]
Meditation Aid: Mindfullness Bell
While searching for online meditations, I came across this MINDFULNESS BELL. Just click on the link, select the type of bell you’d like and set the timer! It’s an awesome tool! http://www.mindfulnessdc.org/bell/index.html Miss Naja
Coping with your Exes NEW BOO
The most unfortunate time in a relationship is when you realize it has reached its climax. The best times have passed and it’s all downhill from here. Many of us will fight tooth and nail to salvage love, but sadly when our efforts are in vain we must begin the process of learning to live […]
Adios! Congressional aide to resign after criticizing Obama daughters
Whenever you post something on social media you need to ask yourself is this really a good idea? With the popularity of social media, one would think that a woman who has worked very hard to earn her title would know a thing or two about social media etiquette! It seems that common sense and […]
Brazilian TV presenter reveals the shocking damage caused by fillers injected to give her a bigger bottom and thighs
A model whose bottom came second in Brazil’s Miss BumBum beauty contest has revealed the terrible harm plastic surgery wreaked on her body. Andressa Urach, 27, spent a month in intensive care and feared she would lose her leg after fillers ‘rotted’ her muscles and had to be removed, triggering a life-threatening infection. These photos […]
To all of my girls trying to figure out their 20s!
Girl…lemme tell you…being in your 20s is TOUGH!!! But, you’ll survive, I promise. 1. You will make mistakes! You will probably fail miserably. Hell I went and got a Bachelor’s degree in the wrong field. I didn’t figure that out until I entered the job market, got a gig using my degree, got myself in […]
Should I hold back in bed?
Yo Doc, Sex… I was taught to beat the ‘’yoni into oblivion,’’ but I find that women tend to catch feelings that I’m not necessarily trying to reciprocate. Should I lessen my stroke game and risk not getting the access I’m accustomed to or should I suppress my talent regardless of repercussion? Well, first off I […]