Amber Rose and Kim Kardashian are naked…again

By now, we’ve all seen Amber Rose’s most recent sting bikini pic. That girl is a stallion, there’s no question about that. Her foe Kimmy Cakes has also recently “Broken The Internet”. If you’re an avid user of social media, you read message boards or you don’t live under a rock, it’s probably safe to say that you’ve seen or maybe even engaged in heated discussions about these two women.

I’m SO torn! I applaud a woman who is free enough to love the skin she’s in! Society has shamed so many of us into not thinking we’re beautiful, especially after giving birth.  I’m well aware that both Amber and Kim were both surgically enhanced  before motherhood and they definitely have the means for “mommy makeover full body plastic surgery”. This still does not negate their beauty or their confidence. Many non- famous women are capable of that “snap back”

I have a few questions though?

1. Would you classify Kim/Amber as hoes?

I’m torn! We ALL know their body count because these women have bedded famous men and their relationships have played out in the spotlight. We’ve even seen Kim in the act! And Amber was an exotic dancer thus the preconceived notions about dancers being of loose morals runs rampant. Now, take a look in the mirror, and ask yourself, “Can I truly wear white on my wedding day?” Probably not girl. And sirs, I doubt if your girl is the Virgin Mary.

2. Are they bad moms because they can’t keep their britches on?

Well, I’m thinking these women are not abusive, keep their kids well fed and well dressed, instill “values”, facilitate a healthy relationship with dad…..typically good moms do these things. Their living comes from being sex symbols and they get paid for being controversially sexy. Aside from leaving the industry or having a total image makeover, these women are etched in our minds as SEX. Sex is also what got ’em knocked up int he 1st place. The societal standard that boxes a mom up in this cloak of virtue is unfair. Being a mother is the ultimate role, however that does not mark the death of your womanhood. In fact, it opens you up to the power of your own body. These women are famous, richer than us and we’re asking them to stop making their living because they are mothers. Have you all tried to put out job applications lately? Ain’t nobody really hiring! All I can say is I am very interested to see what kind of complexes Lil Nori and Bash will grow up with as a result of mommy’s shenanigans.

VERDICT: Reckless, yes. Bad moms, nope.

3. Will men ever marry these women?

Well, yes. Each woman has been married and neither seem to have a problem getting a man. Does this speak volumes about the shift in our culture’s stance on what a WIFE should be? Absolutely! Back in the day Kim and Amber would have been the top whores in the finest brothel in all the the land, but no King nor peasant would have taken them as a wife. They’ve overexposed themselves to the point of no return and there is simply nothing virtuous about that. I’m sure 8 out of 10 men would jump at the chance to sleep with these women. They are walking sex! But when considering a man’s pride, ego and need for exclusivity, he may never live down his woman’s past….especially when you google her name and a big ole greasy booty pops up. I believe the Kanye’s and Wiz’s of the world have mentally catapulted themselves at such an untouchably high pedestal that either they think their own celebrity will absolve their women or they have mind-screwed themselves into taking an IDGAF attitude about their ladies reputations. Hey guys, whatever helps you sleep at night. I do wonder if Kanye or Wiz or any guy that takes on a “high mileage, high visibility” chic had an example of what a successful marriage looked like. Seeing a healthy husband/wife dynamic surely shapes what a man seeks in a wife. I imagine that seeing drama, single parent struggle, and a revolving door of step parents also shapes what a man seeks in a wife.

So should We have a seat or should they? I’m concluding that everyone should take a seat. Most men see these women as categorically out of their league, so for their own egos sake they are forced to surmise that these women are sub par and discount their ability to be fit mates. And admit it ladies, MOST of us wouldn’t exactly be pissed off if we were to miraculously wake up tomorrow with Kim or Amber’s figure. As far as Amber and Kim, they should sit too. I don’t see either of them running for public office and their internet activity has pretty much solidified their future….but what about those babies! Heck, my mom was a normal 9-5 social worker and I grew up to be an emotional, anxious lady (I’m a Cancer btw). I can’t image how screwed up I’d be if mama was bussin’ it WIDE open all over the world! Remember how messed up DMX’s son was from Iyanla Fix My Life !!!??? WHOA!!

Twerk responsibly ladies.

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